Cam Etiquette

femdom humiliatrix phoneI didn’t think that I would ever have to write this.. but, due to the growing number of clueless subs. dumbdumbs… hopefully this will shed some light. I really really hope it will help  for my own sake and any other domme you may approach.

The thing is, it’s really not that difficult. Most of this is simply basic proper communication. Instead of saying ” hey mistress, do you do joi” or ” would you dominate and humiliate me” or, “are you into hypnosis” or “can I see your nipples”  just makes me think of you that you are really really dumb. If you are paying per minute, I really have no problem explaining in thorough detail how you should approach a mistress before you start throwing requests around. Sometimes it takes quite a while, and yes, you are paying for it. If you are asking those questions and are not paying per minute, you are just going to get blocked. If it says on the website I don’t do “nakked” and you are sitting there waiting to see nipples because for some reason you think you’re special and I’m going to jump out of my clothes just to please you…lets just see how long it’s going to take before your credits run out.

If you would like to improve your communication skills when approaching a domme, here is a little help:

Do not EVER start a greeting in the email, chat, phone,  messenger with a ” hey mistress’ “hi there” “what’s up” and the like, especially, if this is your first time contacting a domme. It immediately shows your lack of basic understanding of where you at. It shows the lack of basic communication skills and respect. A dominatrix is not your buddy. We do not go to school together, we are not co-workers, we do not hang out at lunch and we don’t go with you for a beer. Dommes online are here to be served and worshiped. If you have this fantastic fetish fantasy of serving a beautiful and intelligent female, please don’t ruin it with the first words that come out of your mouth. You don’t have to speak in Shakespearean  to sound proper and respectful.

Simple, ” hello Mistress/Goddess/Princess, how are you today” is really good enough to start a conversation.  The better version is ” Hello Goddess, how may I serve you today?” even better version ‘ Hello Goddess, I have sent a humble tribute, I hope it makes you happy, how are you today”. .. but that’s like advancing levels in a video game. Some of you are just not advanced enough.

-So what can you do for me?

-I can wank for you. – Makes me hysterically laugh in your face. -I can eat my own cum for you. – same reaction.

To tell the truth if I am not directly benefiting from your actions, you are doing it for yourself. I don’t mind it if you are paying for a cam/phone session but don’t call it a service or a tribute. It’s an exchange of your money for my time and skill. My skill is doing exactly what I want with you and you loving it. If you start giving me requests and tell me what to do, expect to pay more even if you want to see a single toe if I sense you’re giving me commands. I’m a professional bitch, and I get paid to be a bitch, I’m not here to make you happy. If it makes you happy, please, by all means, celebrate.

At the end of a cam or a phone session, a ” Thank you Mistress” is a really good idea. If you are using a third party service like niteflirt or a cam site, a simple thing like leaving a feedback is always encouraged and appreciated. Leaving the conversation without leaving feedback is acting like it never happened. We, the precious, wonderful ladies LOVE a good feedback. It makes us warm and fuzzy on the inside. It also makes us more money, and since you are not able to afford to pay for ALL the things that we want, but only some, the least you can do is let other people know how good we are. You will help other submissives to make their choice better so that they can make us more money. It’s like participating in one big great thing that makes a domme feel more loved, appreciated, as well as benefiting the bank account.

Wouldn’t it make you feel GOOD knowing that a little action like that has made our day better, and that it may benefit even more in the future… even if you are long gone, you still have left your imprint in the building of the little femdom empire on the web.

I’m sure I could say more about this, but I’m afraid it will just overwhelm you with too much information. I may add more in the future.

Now, go ahead and make yourself useful and visit the  Wish List on amazon.

and here’s some inspiration:

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